In one of Fr. Jerry M. Orbos, SVD’s books — Just a Moment — he asks a powerful question: “Was there a moment in your life when you experienced God in a very real and personal way?” My answer is a wholehearted yes — not just once, but many times. I didn’t grow up religious. I wasn’t taught to rely on God’s grace. As a child, life felt messy, hopeless, and out of control. I wanted to grow up fast so I could fix the things I hated most — especially the way we were living. Back then I didn’t know it, but God was already working behind the scenes. The first time I truly felt His presence was in 2008, when I passed the bar exam. That year, the passing rate was unexpectedly adjusted — something I saw as God’s perfect timing. Honestly, if that didn’t happen, I don’t know how I would have survived it. It was a turning point that made me believe God sees us, hears our whispered prayers, and knows how much we struggle. From that day, I promised myself to live ri...
Valentine’s Day is here again, and while couples are stressed about fully booked restaurants, overpriced flowers, and cheesy Instagram posts, tayo namang mga single? CHILL LANG. 😎 But let’s be real—every February, titas, lolas, at random kapitbahays come in full force with their favorite questions:
💬 "May boyfriend/girlfriend ka na ba?"
💬 "Kailan ka magpapakasal?"
💬 "Sayang ka, ang ganda/gwapo mo pa naman!"
Pero relax lang, mga besh! Being single isn’t a tragedy—it’s actually a blessing in disguise! Let’s break it down and celebrate why #SingleAndThriving is the way to go. 💃🕺
💖 1️⃣ More Savings, Less Gastos Miley Cyrus Style! 🎶
No more mandatory gifts, date night expenses, or surprise plans that break the bank. Instead, follow Miley Cyrus’s golden rule:
🎶 "I can buy myself flowers…"
🎶 "Write my name in the sand…"
Dahil walang jowa, walang gastos! Instead of spending for someone else, you can:
✔ Book a solo staycation (Y&L’s Crib, perhaps? 😉)
✔ Upgrade your wardrobe or gadgets
✔ Invest in stocks or savings para sa future mo!
2️⃣ Freedom to Make Plans—No Need for “Paalam Muna?” 🎉
Gusto mong magbakasyon bigla? Walang magtatampo!
Gusto mong gumala with friends? Walang magagalit!
You’re free to go anywhere, anytime—walang pressure na mag-update sa isang tao 24/7. Hindi mo na kailangang sagutin ang "Uwi ka na?" text habang nag-eenjoy ka pa sa night out!
3️⃣ No Emotional Drama = Less Stress! 🤯
Singlehood = Peace of Mind. No fights over:
🚩 "Saan tayo kakain?"
🚩 "Sinong ka-text mo?"
🚩 "Bakit hindi mo pa pinapalitan ‘yung profile pic natin?"
Habang ang iba umiiyak sa away at nagde-decode ng ‘K.’ replies, ikaw? Chill, stress-free, and thriving!
4️⃣ You Can Focus on Your Glow-Up & Goals! ✨
Walang distractions, kaya pwedeng mag-focus sa career, fitness, o side hustles!
✔ Mag-ipon para sa dream house o kotse
✔ Mag-gym at maging hotter than your ex's next
✔ Start a passion project—blogging, vlogging, or even a small business!
Sino ang magbe-benefit sa progress mo? IKAW. 💯
5️⃣ Valentine’s Day = Self-Care Day! 🛁
Habang ang iba ay nagaaway dahil sa “walang surprise” drama, you can:
💆 Book a spa day
🎬 Binge-watch Netflix na walang kaagaw sa remote
🛒 Order your favorite food na walang magbabawal
No pressure, no expectations—just pure self-love! 💖
6️⃣ No In-Laws… But Endless “Kailan Ka Magpapakasal?” Questions! 😆
Okay, wala kang in-laws na kailangan i-please, pero meron kang:
😬 Tita na mahilig magtanong ng "Bakit wala ka pang jowa?"
😆 Lola na nagsasabing "Sayang ka!"
🙃 Kapitbahay na nagmamarites sa love life mo kahit wala naman silang alam
Solution? Smile and say:
😎 "Hindi pa ako handa, tita. Ikaw? Ready ka na bang maging ninang sa negosyo ko?"
7️⃣ Barkada Over Bae! 🥳
Walang makaka-cancel ng Friday night out mo. Hindi mo kailangang mag-adjust ng schedule just to accommodate “couple time.” You get to spend quality time with your solid support system!
At the end of the day, friends will always be there, kahit wala pang "the one." 💙
8️⃣ Single Today, Rich Tomorrow? 💰
Maraming successful people started by focusing on themselves first. Instead of chasing relationships, they built their career, savings, and dreams.
Ang love life? Darating ‘yan. Pero habang wala pa, make yourself the best version of YOU.
Love Can Wait, Self-Love Can’t!
Being single isn’t a curse—it’s a chance to live life on your own terms. Whether you’re enjoying your independence or waiting for the right person, huwag magpa-pressure!
💬 What’s YOUR favorite part about being single? Share your thoughts below! 👇👇👇
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