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When God Shows Up: My Real-Life Moments of Grace

  In one of Fr. Jerry M. Orbos, SVD’s books — Just a Moment — he asks a powerful question: “Was there a moment in your life when you experienced God in a very real and personal way?” My answer is a wholehearted yes — not just once, but many times.   I didn’t grow up religious. I wasn’t taught to rely on God’s grace. As a child, life felt messy, hopeless, and out of control. I wanted to grow up fast so I could fix the things I hated most — especially the way we were living. Back then I didn’t know it, but God was already working behind the scenes.   The first time I truly felt His presence was in 2008, when I passed the bar exam. That year, the passing rate was unexpectedly adjusted — something I saw as God’s perfect timing. Honestly, if that didn’t happen, I don’t know how I would have survived it. It was a turning point that made me believe God sees us, hears our whispered prayers, and knows how much we struggle. From that day, I promised myself to live ri...

Embracing Real Change: Beyond Complaints and Criticism


Tired of hearing phrases like "It's better abroad" or "The Philippine system is flawed"? We've all encountered pessimistic remarks about our country. But have we truly attempted to rectify these issues or merely accepted the status quo? Mahatma Gandhi's wisdom resonates deeply: "Be the change you want to see in the world." This phrase inspired me to reflect on my actions and their impact. Before entering the legal profession, I witnessed complaints about unfair treatment, inequality and corruption. I vowed to be different – to embody the change I desired. My motivation wasn't external validation but creating a better future for generations to come. Ironically, many critics perpetuate the very issues they condemn. Consider corruption: instead of bribing, practice genuine gratitude. Say "thank you" instead of offering kickbacks. Catalysts for Change 1. Reject bribery: Say NO, even if others accept it. 2. Verify information: Research before spreading rumors. 3. Uphold integrity: Lawyers, adhere to your oath; explain laws clearly. 4. Respect rules: Follow traffic signs, pedestrian signals and queue. 5. Lead by example: Inspire others through actions. Empowering Transformation Change begins within. We must: 1. Acknowledge personal biases. 2. Take responsibility. 3. Educate others. 4. Foster equality, fairness and justice. Let's transcend mere criticism and become instruments of genuine transformation. Be the change. #PositiveChange #Empowerment

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