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When God Shows Up: My Real-Life Moments of Grace

  In one of Fr. Jerry M. Orbos, SVD’s books — Just a Moment — he asks a powerful question: “Was there a moment in your life when you experienced God in a very real and personal way?” My answer is a wholehearted yes — not just once, but many times.   I didn’t grow up religious. I wasn’t taught to rely on God’s grace. As a child, life felt messy, hopeless, and out of control. I wanted to grow up fast so I could fix the things I hated most — especially the way we were living. Back then I didn’t know it, but God was already working behind the scenes.   The first time I truly felt His presence was in 2008, when I passed the bar exam. That year, the passing rate was unexpectedly adjusted — something I saw as God’s perfect timing. Honestly, if that didn’t happen, I don’t know how I would have survived it. It was a turning point that made me believe God sees us, hears our whispered prayers, and knows how much we struggle. From that day, I promised myself to live ri...

Another Mission Accomplished: Our DFA Passport Experience

    Another mission checked off our family’s list this year—we finally renewed our passports! It had been over a decade since we last had them updated, and this time, it was extra special because our youngest applied for his very first passport. Back when we were just a family of three, our first (and last) trip abroad was to Hong Kong. Our eldest was just a year old then. Since that trip, life got busy, and renewing our passports kept getting pushed back—year after year. Booking a passport appointment these days isn’t exactly a walk in the park. Everything has to be done online, and every time I checked the DFA website, the slots in the satellite office near us were always fully booked. Eventually, I gave up trying—until a colleague mentioned DFA San Pablo City in Laguna. It's about an hour and a half (or two, depending on traffic) from our place. Out of curiosity, I checked their schedule and, to my surprise, found several open slots. I didn’t waste a second—I booked o...

When Safety Becomes a Prayer: A Personal Reflection on Road Accidents, Reckless Driving, and the Need for Change

  The past few weeks have been heartbreaking. We’ve seen headlines filled with tragic accidents at SCTEX, NAIA, and other major roads—lives lost in an instant, families forever changed. It’s a painful reminder that no matter how careful we are behind the wheel, we’re never fully in control—not when there are reckless drivers, neglected vehicles, and a system that sometimes lets safety fall through the cracks. As the country mourns these senseless tragedies, we offer our deepest sympathy to the victims and the families they’ve left behind. It's impossible not to feel the weight of their grief. These were innocent people—parents, children, workers, travelers—whose lives were taken too soon. We grieve with them. And we ask the questions: How did this happen again? Could this have been prevented? These events have rightly prompted government agencies to take action. There are renewed discussions about stricter licensing policies, the need for better oversight in vehicle registratio...

A Mother's Day Tribute: From a Daughter to a Mom, and Now a Mom Herself

This coming Sunday, May 11, 2025—just before the national elections—we'll be celebrating Mother’s Day. And in this simple blog, I dedicate my words to all parents, especially mothers, like my own. This is a tribute born out of experience—mine, and many others who grew up at the same time I did. Growing up in the '90s, I often questioned why our parents had to be so strict. Why couldn’t we join every school field trip? Why did they hesitate to let us hang out late with friends? And why were they so scared when we started having romantic relationships? Back then, I didn’t understand the fear behind their rules. Now I do. They weren’t just being controlling. They were guarding the futures they had sacrificed so much for. They worried that we might get pregnant too young, lose focus, or fail to finish college. But we didn’t. My siblings and I all graduated before starting our own families—something I now realize was a dream come true for our parents. Our parents were also str...

Sun, Laughter, and Team Spirit: Our Unforgettable Weekend at Serenidad Beach Resort

Last weekend, our office had its much-awaited annual team building, and this time, we escaped to the serene shores of Serenidad Beach Resort in Brgy. Malabrigo, Lobo, Batangas. What made it even more special? I brought my whole family along—and yes, they absolutely loved it! Just last December, we celebrated our Christmas party in Lobo too, but this time we stayed at a different resort. At Serenidad, we got the whole Orange Villa to ourselves for ₱23,200. The place comfortably fit 14 of us (kids aged 10 and below stay for free—yay for budget wins!). Here’s a quick villa tour: 🛏️ 3 double beds, 2 queen beds in the loft, and 1 queen bed in a cozy room with its own bathroom 🍽️ Mini kitchen, dining area, and living space 🚿 2 common shower rooms and 2 toilets 🌄 A balcony with a mountain view that’s perfect for your morning coffee They allow guests to bring and cook their own food, which was a big plus for us—we saved a lot that way! Inside, there’s a TV with YouTube and Netf...